Contrast

Him: "Huh."

Me: "SQUEEEEEEE!"

Him: "Can I share with you what I just read? ... Wait, why are you bouncing?"

Me: "I just found this website, The On-Line Encyclopedia of Integer Sequences, how cool is that? 1, 2, 3, 6, 11, 23, 47, 106, 235... what's the next number?"

Him: "Uh..."

Me: "I don't know either! ... What did you find?"

Him: "This post about a woman in a heterosexual relationship seducing a friend who later becomes pregnant by the first woman's partner. Does she tell her male partner he's the dad?"

Me: "Yes."

Contrast discussing ideas versus people, and what do you come up with?